It's easy to SAY it, but is it true?

There are millions of women, and probably men as well, out there who want kids more than anything in the world, and they can't have them. Whether it be because of a health problem, not successful in getting pregnant, significant other doesn't want kids but they love them to much to walk away, etc.For this reason, it makes me sick when "parents" take advantage of what they have.


I see it everywhere. All over blogs, myspace, etc. "I love My kids", "My kids are my world", and so on.

They say these things, but are they really true. You say you'd die for your kids, but would you really?

These same people are the ones complaining about not being able to go out drinking when their children are still infants. Claiming to be in dire need of a break, before their baby can hold their own head up. Leaving them with a babysitter or the grandparents every weekend, because they would rather be club hopping. It disgusts me.

I don't know where people get the idea that as long as your kids are fed, and have a roof over their head, you're doing your job as a parent. Being a good parent takes a lot more then just supporting your kids financially. If you aren't loving your kids the way you should, you are lacking as a parent. It's simple.

So maybe you got pregnant by accident, either way, the child is still yours. Your flesh and blood. The moment you find out your pregnant, it should be your life. When you have a child, you're saying goodbye, or at least you should be, to the party scene.

If anyone takes offense to this, then I'm talking to you. And I only have two more words for you.

Grow Up.